It is not just the opinion that is important but also learning how someone reached their conclusion. Karl Popper (1963), philosopher and a few other things, discussed the importance of knowing how we develop our beliefs and discovering motivations behind the thinking. Public or societal opinion can be irrational and if allowed to go unchallenged can give rise to such movements as Hitlerism. Popper (1963) determined in so many words, the moral framework of liberalism is a counterbalance to such structures as Nazism. He believed the answer to public opinion is the western rationalist tradition of critical discussion. He was pro-argument for truth’s sake for as Popper noted, “the truth is hard to come by.” The great Winston Churchill (1940) stated:
“People will occasionally stumble over the truth, but most of the time they will pick up themselves and continue on.”
Rationalism supports social justice. Rationalism according to Popper (1963) essentially negates any formative thinking of utopia due to its implication to violence. Being an ideal state of society, Utopia does not allow for change or differences of opinion and ideology. A utopia is a form of rationalism, but according to Popper, it is the wrong form. The correct way of rationalism is arguments and discussions of our own and others thoughts and opinions provoking refutation and conjecture. Without rationalism, violence occurs to create the result thinking of utopias boundaries and parameters and the maintain them. Nazism. Profoundly Popper (1963) states, intellectual development has outrun our moral development. This requires attention. He believed there has not been a time in history that humans have however been given the level of dignity that society has lent at the time of his contemplation. According to his rationalistic belief system, men are equal and are to be respected as such.
The potential for over-analyzing and risk-taking when deciding on whether or not to report information is a present concern. Being considered gate-keepers, is a challenging place to exist. Reputation is paramount in the mental health world. People rely on the ability of the clinician to create a safe space by which they open themselves up to vulnerable existences. No one wants to be the individual bringing an accusation up to the licensing board, but in the end, the importance of the safety in our field weighs more heavily than that of whether or not the alleged offender continues to feel fond of the accuser. Popper (1963) discusses the importance of truth and though he was not discussing the role of a therapist, in the mental health world truth is crucial. Reporting an individual for doing wrong, being a gatekeeper for society or even the mental health world is a weighty responsibility, and one that each clinician takes on when accepting licensure and each person carries as a member of a community. If clinicians do not hold truth and reporting of offenses in high regard, people get hurt. If community members do not maintain safety and security of truth and accountability in high regard, people get hurt. Responsibility, integrity, vulnerability, and gatekeeping are paramount frameworks for the care provided by humans for humans deserving of dignity and protection. Society has an obligation to its members to care for and protect one another. There is a guard for creating safety for those with wounds needing healing and clinicians that may prey either intentionally or unintentionally on them.
Popper, K. (1963). Conjectures and refutations: The growth of scientific knowledge. New York, NY: Routledge Classics.
The shortest verse in all the Bible… Obviously, the easiest to memorize as well. This verse takes us back to a sorrowful time in the life of Jesus. In the small village of Bethany, we find Him weeping at the grave of his friend Lazarus. The tears of our Lord conveys volumes to the reader. I had not really thought of it before but actually, Jesus could have but did not speak healing from a distance like he did for the centurion’s servant. Matthew 8:13 Jesus had his reasons. His reasoning did not negate the suffering, He did not take it lightly. Instead, He was “greatly troubled” and wept. The Son does what His Father’s, our Father’s will is even if it brings temporary sorrow He will be glorified and all He does is good and for good.
With poignant brevity, the gospel of John, took the most simplistic words to convey the mourners experience watching Jesus around the grave by stating, “Jesus wept.” Don’t you know He did not weep because Lazarus was dead. I believe Jesus wept when He saw Mary and Martha, Lazarus’s sisters crying. He loved them and he loved him. He knew what was coming, he knew in just a moment at a beckoning he would raise Lazarus from the dead and bring him out of the grave in his grave clothes.
Tears touch the heart of our Father!
Mary’s heart was broken, she lost her brother. I understand this heartache all too well. She was hurting and had lost hope for help for her brother. She had called for Jesus, she had believed in Him and she now believed He was too late to help. Jesus wept with her knowing her heart and her sorrow.
There is no interpreter needed as tears speak much clearer than words.
In Psalm 56:8, the psalmist says the Father keeps tears in a bottle. So… it’s okay to cry.
Compassion for suffering The Calamity of Sin
The Calamity of Sin The Cost of Redemption
The Cause of His Own Death
For all these things he wept…
I am grateful the Lord’s heart is broken when my heart is broken. It’s hard for me to comprehend the nearness of the Father to me but I feel Him. When I am filled with sorrow He is with me.
“Weeping may tarry for the night, but joy comes with the morning” (Psalm 30:5). And when that morning comes, “death shall be no more, neither shall there be mourning, nor crying, nor pain anymore” (Revelation 21:4).
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I have been waiting, as patiently as I am capable, to fill you all in on a little secret. Those of you who have been on various journeys with me will understand why this is so special.
Hours and hours of hard work has paid off… in 14 days my first book will be PUBLISHED and physically in my hands! I am over the moon with excitment! I realize it si not for everyone. I did not write it for everyone. However, it is written for the someones who know my journey and share in the investment of the adventures and heartaches… or those who love poetry.
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Last thing I want to say… don’t ever give up on yourself or your dreams. Many of you will see in my book where you have played a roll, you will see yourself and I am forever changed by your investment. So, I end with this thought…
Do not go where the path may lead, go instead where there is no path and leave a trail. ~Ralph Waldo Emerson
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“I have a new role… and I must meet the obligations it imposes.”
Sincerity, transparency, authenticity, and curiosity… I consider these leadership characteristics , to often be marginalized qualities. The countertraits first can create a strong foundational quality for successful leadership. Each trait has a tendency to be squelched by the development of other, more favorable leadership habits such as: knowing all, maintaining image, personal interests, and experience.
Here are some leadership lessons we can all take into account when working with other human beings!
- “Govern yourself with love, kindness, and service to others” -Wonder Woman
- “Failure is the fog from which we all glimpse triumph.” -Iron Man
- “With great power comes great responsibility.”
- “You want to control me, & you can’t. But that doesn’t make me your enemy.”
- “Courage is nothing without the will to use it.”
- “Everything’s impossible until someone does it.” -Batman
- “We’ve all been where you are. Someone helped us when we needed it. Now it’s time to pay it forward.”
- “No one can win every battle, but no man should fall without a struggle!”
- “I went from being a man trapped in an iron suit to being a man freed by it.”
- “This nation was founded on one principle above all else: The requirement that we stand up for what we believe, no matter the odds or the consequences.”
- “Mankind is not evil, just uninformed.”
- “You can overcome this or you can wither and die. The choice is yours.”
- “It’s never as bad as it seems. You’re much stronger than you think you are. Trust me.”
We would love to hear from you about your favorite lessons learned from superheroes. Please drop us some feedback! Let’s all follow after the great Bruce Wayne as Batman… ” I’m going to try to break the link in the unreal world.” Sure we can come out of the dark boxes we placed ourselves in as conformists and begin creating and leading others into greatness!
You think I’m quiet… my reality is within my head it is loud and ranges from raging to numbness. Outside most see a mostly quiet, apparently shy, or potentially avoidant wall flower. I most seek observation of others in their interactions.
Shedding thoughts, maddening thoughts rolling all around
I fail to adequately express what I feel and think
My secrets are expressed in words I don’t recognise as my own